unconditional regards

Just finished reading a book "阿德找阿德". Discovered the power of unconditional regards is so important to help one growth.
The book is telling how play therapy can help children go out from sufferings and the miracle change of Tred from the designed and theraputic environment.
The most impressed me is the influence of Dad & Mum acceptance. The unwanted child get hurt and being rejected during his bring up, both his Dad and Mum put high expectation and unreasonable request on the child so that he behaved speakless, dependence & threw temper trantrum easily to every one around him. He climbed like a cat rounding the classroom, he kept himself under a desk not to involve in any class activities. Dad & Mum realized that he is mentally retarded. In fact, his IQ score is 165.
After the 12 sessions receiving play therapy, Tred found out his real self and learn to listen himself, accept himself and express his want, he could forgive and set free from his anger, and grew up to be a confidence, expressive and enthuastic teenage.
The most touching of this book is the psychologist's higher professional knowledge, understanding & wisdom of using play therapy to help children. Besides, she demonstrated her unconditional regards on people that can give security and trust for people to make change.
The most importance point to remind me as a mother is ACCEPTANCE. 陪伴孩童成長, 最大的需要是接納, 一種無條件的接納.